Honestly, like the elders will say “wonders shall never end”. All these things that are happening lately are too surprising, because it is already the end of the world as it can be best described. I really don’t know what can reform this world to that positive world that everyone is praying and hoping for.
Imagine what a 13-year old girl said as she gave a speech on her boyfriend’s birthday.
According to her;
Happy birthday to my special man! Thanks for taking away my virginity today He though I forgot about his birthday, when it’s also my birthday Meeting you was the most wonderful thing that has happened to me in life! You are a special person for me.
So, you are going to receive a special place in my heart and special wishes for Birthday as a boyfriend. Happy Birthday For your birthday, I want to give you cuddles and soft kisses under the stars, but most of all I want you to know how happy I am to be your girl.
You give me the joy, love, and light in my life. I hope you have the happiest and craziest Birthday ever. Sending you ocean of love on your special day, sweetheart! May your bday be as cool and cheerful as you are!
You do not realize how much I love you. You don’t realize how much of a positive effect you have had on my life. You are the greatest boyfriend I have ever had. Since I have been with you, I have always been smiling.
True love is measured by how deep you fall and judged by how low you are willing to crawl, Just to save it and make it last It is determined by how willing you are to open up and offer your trust. It is hospitable, amazing at all times and always kind. It is never prejudiced, it is color blind.
I know I say “I love you” all the time, but that’s not enough. Those three words cant describe the way I feel about you. You make my tummy do flips and my hands shake.
I’ve never loved anyone as much as I love you and I don’t think I will ever love someone this much again. You’re everything I have ever wanted and needed. I love you so much, you’re my everything, my entire heart and world.
You are the reason why I wake up with eyes full of dream. You are the reason why I go to sleep knowing everything is alright in my life. But most of all, you are the reason why I feel happy all the time. Growing old with you is the most wonderful feeling in this world.
I look forward to the day when we will become old and look back to these amazing moments together. I love you now and I will still love you then. Since you have come into my life, I have never known what sadness is. Today my life is full of positivity and hopes.
I never thought someone could have such an impact on my life.I am lucky for the love you have given me. When l’m with you everything seems enjoyable. I even like the scorching sun and the non-stop rain.
Clouds don’t frighten me When I’m with you everything seems enjoyable. I even like the scorching sun and the non-stop rain. Clouds don’t frighten me anymore. I’m lost in the love of you! All I know is you are everything I want! I love you more than you will ever know! Your smile is what makes me happy in this life.
When I look at you, I cant help myself thanking God for such a wonderful blessing. You are the type of boyfriend any woman would die for. I’m lucky that I have you already! No matter how many times we fight or argue, l always want to work it out.
No one could ever take your place. You are amazing in every way and I don’t know what I would do or where l would be if I never met you. You understand me like no one else can and I can truly relate to you in every way. I mean it when I say that I am yours, and you are mine.
You make me feel beautiful. Thank you for giving me so much more than Il ever could have wanted. I am so thankful for what we have, and for every thing we will have. You are the only man I ever want to share my lite with. I could never imagine what it would be like if we were to lose each other. I don’t even want to think about it. All I want to think about is you. You are the love of my life.
I love you. I always will love you until the day that die. Hopefully, when that day comes, I will still have you by my side and you face will be the last face that I see. You are the reason why I wake up with eyes full of dream. You are the reason why I go to sleep knowing everything is alright in my life.
But most of all, you are the reason why I feel happy all the time. Growing old with you is the most wonderful feeling in this world. I look forward to the day when we will become old and look back to No matter how many times we fight or argue, l always want to work it out.
No one could ever take your place. You are amazing in every way and I don’t know what I would do or where l would be if I never met you. You understand me like no one else can and I can truly relate to you in every way. I mean it when I say that I am yours, and you are mine. I love you and will always fight for you.
I want you to know that since the day we met I’ve fallen deeply in love with you. There are no words to express the feeling I feel in my heart the day you came into my life. You make everyday in my life so special.
You are my life, my heart, and my soul. You are my best friend, my one and only true love, and my everything. I love you more today than I did yesterday, and I’ll love you more tomorrow than I do today, and this cycle will always go on in till in the day I die and still, It’ll continue.
Though, she have spoken well, but don’t you think she’s too young to have such kind of literal expressions?
According to history, our grandparents do make us understand that marriage, relationship, love and sex is a sacred thing and not a thing that should be done by young children; but with the view of this present dispensation of civilization, it has turned the table around.
Here is the big question, what does a 13-year old know about love?
Looking at Africa as a third-world continent, enveloped with cultures and traditions, civilization have made us post our value and given up to so many immoralities.
We know that uncultured lifestyle originally from the European world, because only in Europe will you find situations where parents will try to scold their child for acting wrong, and the same child will call the police on his or her parents and get them locked up, without the remorse of what will happen to them when their parents are behind bars.
Also, it is only in the European world that we find children of 5 years old who already will tell you that they have a boyfriend or girlfriend. Some are so spoiled that they are exposed to sexual lifestyle at a very early stage; some get to know about sex through sexual abuse by some wicked adults who are addicted pedophile, some were harassed sexually by their uncle, auntie, cousins, stepbrother, stepsister, or even stepparent too.
Now, this immoral culture is copied by Africa and it’s ruining our reputation as a black nation. All these relationship abuse lifestyle was once accused to the European countries, as you will see a 16-year old becoming a mother of two. I can remember some time ago when I met a 24-year old lady, who told me that she is a mother of six children; I was shocked because it is really strange to see a 24-year old wan from Africa with six children during the time of our grands and greatgrands.
It was once marked that the headquarters of baby mama was in Europe and America, now Africa is taking over as civilization has taken our value away from us.
I remember when I traveled to Ijebu-igbo over ten years ago, I was shown a 15-year old girl who is already a mother of two. At first I was shocked, but my friend whom I traveled with made me understand that motherhood was the trend of maturity in that village, and that made me speechless, because majority of these young girls are mothers to children from different fathers, just because they were exposed to sex at a very early stage.
If only we could ask for one thing from the father, we would request that he restore our prestige and moral culture because things are really getting weird by the day. Now we are in world where teenagers flaunt their body in immodest clothes and living a negative life, just because they want to make a mark of being in vogue.
In this same part of the world will you see secondary school boys, who will tell you that he is a hustler and that he has some clients; they are addicted to smoking and all sorts of narcotics, including the one that turns their tongue blue. Also, the girls are not left behind, as they already at the age of 13 know how it feels to kiss a boy or even go as weird as discussing how their previous and present boyfriends do make love to them and they are so knowledgeable that they will tell you some sexual styles that even a moral 40-year old mother don’t know. This is all as a result of civilization negative exposure.
This should call the attention of all parents, as they deserve to be questioned to tell the world where they kept their responsibility of parenthood. Until these modern days parents start living responsible and show good examples, we will continue to have worst future.